Dear Friend,
Most
guys who try online dating FAIL miserably.
Online dating SEEMS like
a great idea… doesn't it?
You sit down at your computer, logon
to the online dating website, and start emailing all kinds of hot babes… with no fear of “rejection” or
confrontation. And then they email you back, get to know “the real you”, build a relationship in a friendly, low-key
way, and eventually go out on a date…
Wouldn't it be GREAT if
that was how it actually worked?
Well, if you've actually TRIED online
dating, then you KNOW it's not like that AT ALL.
In fact, if you've
tried it out, then you know that it can actually be MORE challenging than meeting women in the “real world”.
Why
is this?
Well, for starters, it's this way because almost EVERY GUY
is thinking this same “ideal fantasy” about online dating. And the online dating companies aren't exactly “downplaying”
how difficult it is to REALLY meet women online.
But there's another
reason… a more IMPORTANT reason…
Let me ask you something…
Have
you ever been to an “average” bar or nightclub? You know the kind I'm talking about. It's just OK… the booze
is cheap, the music is predictable, and the people are all pretty boring.
But
at every one of those places, there's always a HOT girl or two. She's the one that everyone is looking at… and the one
that all the guys want to talk to…
And guess what? All the guys
ARE talking to her.
To the point where she is both enjoying the attention
a little… AND also getting annoyed at them… because they're so THE SAME.
So
with this in mind, guess what it's like to be an attractive woman with an ad on an online dating website?
Right.
It's TEN TIMES worse.
It's common for a woman to get fifty or even
a HUNDRED responses from men in a SINGLE DAY.
And just like the hot
woman in the bar, the attractive woman with the online profile is experiencing one predictable, boring, lame introduction
after another…
“Hi, you're really beautiful. How about
I take you out to your favorite restaurant, then to a movie. I'd like to get to know you better…”
“I
realize that I'm probably not your type, but I thought I'd try anyway. If you'd give me a chance, I'd show you that I'm the
nicest guy you could ever want…”
“Hello, read my
profile and let me know if you're interested…”
Microsoft
should build a feature into Windows that actually reaches out and BITCH SLAPS any man that types these words in response to
a woman's online dating profile.
Anyway, you get the point.
Attractive
women are SMOTHERED by responses from boring, predictable, lame guys who communicate low self-esteem and approval seeking
indicators. It's sad.
It Doesn't Have To Be This Way! All that said, I have been able to meet
MANY attractive women online. In fact, as I write this, I met my last two long-term girlfriends online.
I've
met and dated models, actresses, dancers… artists… intellectual women… and everything in between…
consistently and successfully… all online.
I taught myself to
TYPE by chatting with women online.
And I perfected my “Cocky
& Funny” technique talking to women… you guessed it… online.
The
question is:
Why is it that I have been able to have consistent
success with online dating, while most guys spend hours and hours trying to find “the key”, only to fail?
That's
what I'd like to share with you…
How I Developed A
SYSTEM That Got Me One Date After Another With Interesting, Attractive, Intelligent Women…
I can remember when I
first decided to get this part of my life called “women and dating” handled…
I
have to admit something to you. I never even CONSIDERED online dating as a “real” way to meet women.
One
day, a new friend of mine was telling me about his “system” for meeting women on the internet. He wanted me to
come over to his house, so he could show me.
Well, when I got there,
and he started showing me his “system”, I was BLOWN AWAY. It was one of the most ingenious things I'd ever seen.
It was like a MACHINE.
He showed me how he looked at different types
of profiles, how he selected women, how he started conversations with them… and how he tracked and recorded his conversations
with them. I felt like I was sitting in the presence of a genius… and I was.
But
the REAL miracle of his system wasn't the “machine”… it was the WOMEN HE WAS DATING.
He
showed me pictures of BEAUTIFUL women he had met online and dated… he told me the stories (and even showed me the actual
conversations!) of meeting them…
Wow.
I
now had the evidence I needed that online dating COULD work… and expanding on what he taught me, I went to work to create
success for MYSELF.
I made many discoveries over the next several months.
I
learned how to chat with women online, and TAKE ADVANTAGE of the fact that online conversations are about one TENTH the speed
of normal conversations.
I paid careful attention to the different
types of communication that men and women use online… and I developed systematic approaches to starting conversations,
creating attraction, getting phone numbers… and even getting dates RIGHT ON THE COMPUTER.
A
new world was open to me, and I took advantage of it.
I learned a couple
of very important concepts while I was developing my system…
If
you want to be successful meeting women online, you need to understand two KEY things:
- You must not do what every other guy is doing
- You must find a system that works, and STICK WITH IT
Just
like the “real world”, there are common, predictable PATTERNS of behavior that happen consistently.
If
you're an attractive woman who has a profile online, the responses you're getting from men are PAINFULLY predictable.
HINT:
If you'd like to give yourself a GREAT education that costs NOTHING, then get one of your attractive female friends to put
up a “free trial” online dating profile, and then look at the responses she gets during the FIRST DAY or two.
You'll
be floored at how LAME the introductions are. You'll laugh… you'll shake your head… you'll actually get MORE CONFIDENCE
as well. Trust me, it's a great “science experiment”, and every guy should do it.
One
of the most IMPORTANT things for you to notice as you're reading through the responses and introductions that guys send in…
is how THE SAME they are.
Take note, and DON'T DO what all those guys
are doing!
After you've learned what NOT to do, it's time to develop
a SYSTEM that works predictably and consistently…
One of the
MAJOR mistakes that men make meeting women in the “real world” is something that I like to call the “Originality
Paradox”. Basically, men try to be “original” when they approach women… they want to say something
“unique and special”. Well, the problem is that most guys STILL say the SAME THINGS!
While
we're trying to be “original”, we don't stop to think about the fact that all the other guys who tried to be original
earlier that day probably said the SAME THINGS. Duh.
As it turns out,
saying a “canned line” to a woman on the street will often work better than something “unique and original”.
Online
it's the same way… only MORE so
So many guys are contacting the
attractive women… with the SAME INTRODUCTIONS… that you must do something DIFFERENT.
And,
fortunately, doing something that's “canned” usually works MUCH better than writing something “unique and
different and special”.
The 4 Keys To “Automating” The Process
Of Online Dating... And Meeting More Women Every Single Month Than Most Men Meet All Year...
Wouldn't it be nice to know that anytime you felt
like it, you could simply jump online and score yourself a date with an interesting, attractive woman... with almost ZERO
effort on your part?
Well... let me tell ya... when you have your
system in place, it really is just that easy.
The only real
“work” involved is developing the system itself.
And as
you probably know if you have ever joined a dating site in the past... it's not an easy task.
Starting
from scratch, it can take YEARS of trial and error, and a little luck... and that's if you ever figure it out...
But
fortunately... this doesn't have to be the case for YOU.
I want to
give you the details of my “paint by the numbers” system to easily and methodically meet one hot woman
after another on any dating site, social network, or chat group... regardless of whether or not you are good looking or photogenic...
and even if you flunked English class.
The skills required can
be broken down into 4 basic categories. Mastery of just one of these categories will give you a distinct advantage
over the other men who are trying to meet women online... but only when you master all 4 does the REAL magic begin to happen...
Upon
learning the skills I'm about to share with you, you will have the ability to go onto any dating site, social network, or
anywhere else... and essentially cast a “magic net” that pulls every attractive woman that signs up DIRECTLY TO
YOU.
Here's how they break down:
1. How To Craft Killer Emails That FORCE A Woman To Read Them And Respond
As you now know... attractive women who post profiles on dating sites
get DOZENS... even HUNDREDS of emails every day.
Even a woman who doesn't
post her photo will typically get TEN or more...
The bottom line
is that you need to do THREE things to have chance with her:
Strike
Fast - With so many emails coming in every day, attractive women get overwhelmed FAST... often “giving up”
on the whole thing because it is so time consuming to weed through them all. Eventually they either delete their profiles,
or simply forget about it altogether.
What does this mean to you?
You
must STRIKE FAST—and preferably FIRST—in order to get an attractive woman to respond.
Fortunately,
it's EASY when you know how...
Stand Out - Have I mentioned
that attractive women—and even unattractive women— get A LOT of emails from men?
If
you don't stand out in a BIG way, you'll be lucky if your email even gets opened... let alone replied to.
Think
about it: If you received 100 emails tomorrow... and you were pretty damn sure that 99% of them said exactly the same thing...
how many of them would YOU open? You'd probably go through 5-10... hoping for something that caught your attention.. and then
give up. This is what attractive women do as well.
But if one email
has a subject line that JUMPS OUT at her... you better believe she is readying that one first...
MOVE HER To Respond - As you know... in the “real world”, simply asking a woman if you are “her type”
is NOT going to get her to “like you”.
Nor is telling her
that you think the two of you would be good together.
You need to spark
ATTRACTION... and make her WANT IT.
The same holds true for online
dating... TIMES TEN.
Simply asking a woman to “check out your
profile” is not going to get her to write you back...
Nor is
telling her that you think the two of you have something in common, or that you would be a good match.
Just
like the “real world”... you need to generate emotion. You need to MOVE HER to respond.
The
good news is that doing this online is actually EASIER than in “real life”.
You
can choose your words carefully... and don't have to worry about “stumbling” or freezing up.
It's
as simple as taking a proven formula and customizing it to fit and attract the woman you want... and in a moment, I'll show
you how to do just that...
2. How To Design Your Profile To MAGNETICALLY Attract
The Type And Quality Of Women You Want
So
now that you've caught her attention with your email, the very FIRST thing she is going to do is check out your profile.
And
guess what?
If your profile sucks... your great email just became WORTHLESS.
On
the other hand... a strong profile will not only get a woman to write you back... it will also get a woman to write you FIRST.
A
great profile is a PRICELESS ASSET.
Think of it like owning a vending
machine...
You can simply place your machine in an area where people
want snacks... and it will sit there and MAKE YOU MONEY, 24/7.
A great
profile works the same way...
Put it in a place where women want dates
(like ANY or even ALL of the dating sites)... and it will sit there and GET YOU WOMEN... 24/7!
Do
you see what I'm getting at here?
And here's the best part...
Unlike
a vending machine that has competition from convenience stores and other machines around it... when you use the secrets
I'm going to share with you, your profile will be the VERY BEST on the block.
Think
of it like being the only guy in your high school who drove a FERRARI...
That's
right my friend...
ALL the ladies are coming to you!
With
so many clueless men out there, it really is that simple. I'm going to show you how to put your profile on STEROIDS... everything
from proven sequences of photos that spark interest and curiosity... to the hidden psychological triggers that make a woman
feel like she would be CRAZY not to email you, or to respond to one of yours.
3. “Legal Hacks” That Work On Any Dating Site To Stack The Odds UNFAIRLY In Your Favor...
Ah yes... one of my personal favorites...
There
are many, many little tricks you can use to “rig the system” on a dating site... and 99.9% of men have
NO IDEA that they even exist...
For example, there is a free and
easy way to get your profile to THE VERY TOP of the search results... putting you in front of the eyes of the most women
possible... which, of course... gets YOU more emails than anyone else...
There
are also ways to track down those ULTRA HOT women that you just don't see when you are out on the town... and lots of them
at that...
And that's just the beginning...
As
you can imagine, not all gorgeous women join dating sites... BUT... there ARE several other “secret spots” on
the web that many do frequent. Do you know what they are... and how to use them to meet women like crazy? Guess what... 99.9%
of men DON'T EITHER... but you're about to find out (Of course... the very best part about these untapped goldmines is that
there is ZERO competition...)
Can you say “easy money”?
4. How To Turn Responses Into Phone Numbers, Phone Numbers Into Dates,
And Dates Into Intimate Relationships... And Develop Your Own “Perpetual Dating Machine” That Lands You
One Woman After Another... With Surprisingly Little Work
On Your Part...
It never surprised
me that many of my friends who were the BEST at meeting women in “the real world” seemed to have NO LUCK with
meeting women online... and quickly gave up.
The fact is that if you
don't know what you're doing... meeting women online is a BITCH.
Forget
about all of the 1000 other guys competing for the woman you want... and the fact that you can't use all of the same weapons
that you have in real life to distinguish yourself and create attraction...
Even
when you DO finally get a woman's attention and get her interested in you... getting her to actually meet up with you and
making something happen is an entirely different story...
The
reason is that online dating is DIFFERENT.
It requires an entirely
different set of skills than meeting women in more traditional ways.
You
have to go about getting phone numbers differently... and when you're on the phone with a woman you've met online, you have
to handle the conversation differently than you normally would if you want to get her to actually meet up with you...
And
even when you do end up getting together, it's a very different ballgame.
Expectations
are high, and barriers are even higher.
Most men are far too lazy to
put in the time to learn the differences and make things work for them... and I don't blame them... it's not easy.
But
the guys I do know that eventually figured this stuff out—myself included—have discovered something very
interesting...
We've discovered that meeting and dating a woman from
the online world is actually FAR EASIER than meeting a woman the “regular way”... because everything is so SYSTEMATIC.
Since
you are meeting each woman in essentially the same way... with the same variables and circumstances... it's fairly simple
to develop a successful “routine” that works nearly every time.
For
example, I have one very successful friend who has a “standard email” he sends to get the conversation started...
then a follow-up email that gets a woman to send him her phone number right away!
Since
all of the women he talks to get basically the same information about him before the phone call, he noticed that many of them
ask the same questions when he rings them up...
Over time he figured
out how to handle the first call in a way that removes a woman's concerns and gets her EXCITED about meeting up with him...
and screens her to make sure SHE is legit.
Because the phone conversation
is very similar each time... the actual meeting itself usually starts off the same way...
My
friend has figured out ways to lead the date in the direction he wants to go... and get a woman turned on for him FAST.
The
fact is that once you have a “routine” like this down for yourself, meeting women online becomes almost TOO EASY.
It's
plain to see why some of the guys I know that are good at this are now too lazy to even leave the house to meet women.
I mean heck... unless they were looking for a challenge, why would they?
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