Power Sexuality

Dear Friend,

Your sex drive is killing your sex life.

The amazing gift – of a sex drive – that you were born with, has become your worst enemy.

Let me ask you something…

Have you ever seen an innocent child chasing after a butterfly?

Just as the child gets closer to the butterfly, and begins smiling because he’s about to catch it… he gets too excited, and moves too fast… and scares his prize away.

And this is exactly what you’re probably doing with women right now.

Innocently… and ignorantly… you’re pushing away the women you’re most attracted to… and, in the process, you’re pushing away your chances of having sexually fulfilling relationships with those women.

How am I so sure about this?

Because I did this exact same thing ALL MY LIFE.

And it’s only now, after years of “self development” and learning that I’m able to see my past thinking and behavior for EXACTLY what it was… DESTRUCTIVE.

Some Of The Many Mistakes I Made…

You may have heard me mention this before, but I didn’t have my first girlfriend until I was 18 years old. Up until that point, I had gotten used to women not paying attention to me, and I just assumed that I wasn’t the type of guy that women were “interested in”.

I would hear stories about the other guys in my high school “hooking up” with the attractive girls… and, over time, I just got the point where I accepted the idea that those guys must have something “special” about them… that attracted women in a sexual way.

The more these other guys “scored”, and the more I didn’t score, the more I affirmed that belief in my mind…

But here’s the kicker: Just because women weren’t interested in ME in a sexual way… didn’t mean that I wasn’t interested in THEM in a sexual way. My desire was always there… hoping… waiting… praying for a chance opportunity to be with one of these seemingly out-of-reach beauties I saw all around me.

Now that I look back on it, I realize that the frustration that came from believing that I would never be successful with women… combined with my growing desire to BE with one of these women… ruled my “mental world”.

I had no idea that I had the word “DESPERATE” written in big bold letters on my forehead. Women could see it… but I had no idea it was even there.

This “foundation” (if you could call it that), led to another set of problems as I got older…

Because I secretly believed that women weren’t interested in me “in that way”, I always felt embarrassed, ashamed, and guilty about my desires to be with them…

I could be talking to an attractive woman, and as soon as I started to think “Hey, this woman is hot…” I would become INCREDIBLY self-conscious.

All of a sudden, I felt like my thoughts and intentions were being projected on a giant movie screen right in front of the girl I was talking to. I felt like she could READ MY MIND.

Worse, I felt like she not only knew what I was thinking, but she was probably DISGUSTED by it… and wanted to get away from me.

I mean, if you were an attractive woman, and a guy that wasn’t attractive in any way was talking to you… and thinking sexual thoughts about you… wouldn’t YOU want to get away as fast as possible?

I thought so. And, more importantly, I thought that SHE thought so.

And again… now that I’m older, and can look back on this with experience… I can see that I was literally sabotaging my chances of success with these women.

What Was Wrong?
Why Couldn’t I See It?

At that time in my life, I had NO WAY of knowing what the problem was.

I had no way of knowing that the women I was so attracted to could see RIGHT THROUGH ME.

I had no way of knowing that it was OBVIOUS to them that I wanted them… and that I didn’t know how to GET them…

The problem was actually three problems:

1) had NO Sexual Confidence.

2) I had NO Sexual Experience.

3) I had NO clue.

Not only did I lack confidence and experience, I didn’t even have anyone to slap me upside the head and say “Hey dumbass! Go get some Sexual Confidence… and read a few books about sex already!”

In fact, sometimes I mentally go back and bitch-slap my inner child and say those exact words! Just don’t mention that to any therapists… they might not agree with my self-motivation techniques…

In total, I spent around ten YEARS of my adult life in this “rat maze”, trying to find the secret door… and only running into one frustrating situation after another.

I’d get lucky, and start a casual conversation with a woman that I found attractive… and screw it up because I was so insecure about my sexuality… and because I thought she could NEVER find me attractive… so I wouldn’t even TRY.

I’d get lucky again, and wind up dating a woman that I really liked… and because I had no Sexual Confidence, I’d turn into “Super Wussy Boy” and she’d get bored of me… and we’d break up.

I’d get VERY lucky… and find myself in a situation where an attractive woman was in bed with me… but I’d get nervous and self-conscious… and not be able to even get sexually excited (by the way, this one is the hardest to even admit… and I can’t believe I’m typing these words right now).

These are just a few of the COUNTLESS situations that I screwed up over those ten or so years of my life…

If you’ve been reading this, and you can identify with what I’m talking about, then what I’m about to say will probably change your life FOREVER. I’m not kidding…

The Root Of The Problem…

The sad (but true) fact is that I had NO IDEA that my problems were coming from my MIND.

It wasn’t that women weren’t interested in me… and it wasn’t that they were disgusted by my desire for them…

The reality was that I didn’t know how to MAKE them interested… and I didn’t know that if they were interested, that they would LIKE the fact that I wanted them sexually.

In short, I had no SEXUAL CONFIDENCE.

Those two words are interesting together, aren’t they?

Somehow, even though you’ve probably never seen them used together… you probably know EXACTLY what they mean when used in this way… right?

Let’s put it another way.

I’ll bet you’ve “thought through” the idea that sex is “natural”… right?

You’ve gone over it in your mind over and over… and you’ve convinced yourself logically that there’s “nothing wrong with sex”… and that if you are interested in a woman sexually, that it’s totally healthy and acceptable.

But then there’s REALITY…

When you find yourself in the SITUATION with a woman… and you suspect that she might be “reading your mind”, you become self-conscious and ashamed again… even though you “know” there’s nothing to be self-conscious and ashamed about…

This, my friend, is a lack of Sexual Confidence.

But there’s more…

I also mentioned earlier the factor called “sexual experience”.

Here I’m talking specifically about knowing exactly how to please a woman in the bedroom. I’m talking about having the goods. I’m talking about being able to look at a woman and say to yourself “if that woman is lucky enough to experience some time with me on an intimate level, she is going to remember it for the rest of her life”.

THAT is what I’m talking about.

And when you COMBINE these two factors, and you develop them consciously… you will become a man that has UNLIMITED options with women.

A “Dirty Secret” That
Most Women
Will Never Admit…

One of the most INTERESTING things I learned while I was teaching myself about Sexual Confidence was this:

Many (or maybe even most) attractive women have gone through… or are going through… a time in their lives where they have become what I call “sexually dormant”.

What I’m talking about here is very private, and very personal to most women…

A woman who is going through this experience has found herself in a place where she has FORGOTTEN what it feels like to be SEXUALLY ALIVE.

See, for most women, they rarely (or NEVER) meet a man who has that amazing combination of “Sexual Confidence” PLUS the ability to really “please” her in the bedroom.

And, just like I programmed myself that there was something “unattractive” about me… and I’d probably never succeed sexually with women… a woman who is sexually dormant has come to believe that this is just the way it is.

She has literally LOST HOPE.

Whoah, heavy man.

But there’s good news. And it’s VERY good news…

If you work on yourself, and develop your natural Sexual Confidence… then learn a few things about how to please women… you can awaken a woman’s sexual side. And then… WATCH OUT.

Even though this sounds like some kind of romance novel sex fantasy, it’s 100% true. Every word of it. And I’m going to prove it to you…

One Technique That Will
Literally Transform Your
“Sexual Success”
With Women Instantly…

Before I go on, I’d like to share a technique that you can use to dramatically increase your success with women on a sexual level.

If you pay attention and USE what I’m about to share, you will see VERY powerful results.

Why am I going to share this technique with you?

Because I want you to see for yourself just how much difference a small change can make.

And I want to you to see for yourself that you can LEARN how to improve your sexual success with women (I also want you to invest in my home-study program as well, but that’s another story…).

Have you ever heard me tell the story of “Old Bull and Young Bull”? Maybe you’ve heard the joke…

Old Bull and Young Bull are standing on a hill. Young Bull says to Old Bull, “Hey, let’s run down there and have sex with one of them cows”. Old Bull slowly turns to Young Bull and says, “Let’s WALK down there, and have sex with ALL of them”.

The moral of the story is that Old Bull has learned that being in too much of a hurry limits your sexual success.

Being in too much of a hurry scares women away.

Being in too much of a hurry makes women RESIST… it weirds them out.

If being in too much of a hurry hurts you, then what’s the obvious solution?

Duh.

SLOW DOWN.

This is a good start, by the way. And I recommend it.

Lean back. Don’t move too fast. Don’t communicate that you’re needy. Don’t get overly excited if she gives you a “positive signal”. In short, CHILL OUT.

But this isn’t the ULTIMATE answer.

This isn’t the answer that brings you the EXPONENTIAL increase in success.

This isn’t the answer that literally gets women AROUSED… and turns them on.

For that, you must do something that’s both SIMPLE… and “counter-intuitive”.

By counter-intuitive, I mean that you must do something that you’d probably never think of… and you’d never stumble on by accident… because it almost doesn’t make sense.

And that’s the BEAUTY of it.

Because it’s not something that most men think of (or do accidentally), it is INCREDIBLY powerful to do with women… because they never EXPERIENCE it.

The “Magic Key” To
A Woman’s Arousal…
Anticipation

The way to take this idea of “slowing down”, and multiply its effectiveness… is to add a simple twist to it.

This twist is to actually STOP once in awhile… and GO BACKWARDS a step.

In fact, I call this technique “Two Steps Forward, One Step Back”.

And here’s why it works:

For a woman, arousal (or being “turned on”) is all about ANTICIPATION.

Men get turned on instantly… but women usually take longer. And they ENJOY the process of getting turned on more and more over time.

If you know this simple fact… and you know how to create MENTAL ANTICIPATION… you will know the secret of getting any woman aroused sexually.

Here’s how to do it…

Next time you’re with a woman, tell yourself that you’re going to STOP at every “base”, and take a step BACK.

Let’s say you’ve kissed her for the first time.

STOP.

Lean back.

Smile at her.

Start talking again.

And don’t touch her for several minutes.

Now, why’s that?

Because she’s going to be thinking to herself “Why did he stop?” and “Is there something wrong” and “Is he going to kiss me again?”.

And the more she thinks and wonders, the more TURNED ON she’s going to get.

When you do start kissing again, put your arms around her… but DON’T TOUCH any of her “private” areas.

Touch her shoulders. Touch her arms. Pull her close. But DON’T TOUCH the “R Rated” zones.

And then… you guessed it…

STOP.

Lean back.

Smile at her again.

Lay close to her with your arm around her… very still.

During the time you were kissing her and touching her, she will be thinking “Why isn’t he trying to touch me all over?” and “I’d better be ready to stop him”.

But you didn’t touch her in any of those places. And she didn’t get to “stop you”.

And now that you’ve stopped, she’s thinking even more… and getting even MORE aroused.

Are you learning something?

Good.

Now go and use this technique, and see for yourself how powerful a simple idea like this one can be…

Now, I just shared a very simple… but very POWERFUL technique.

And, as I mentioned, it is “counter intuitive”. It’s not something you probably would have figured out “on your own”.

Well, just like that one idea was both counter intuitive… AND easy to learn… all of the steps to building Sexual Confidence and Sexual Experience are basically the same.

You can learn them.

Quickly.

Easily.

No hassle.

Oh, and it’s FUN to learn them. It’s not only interesting, it’s also wonderfully challenging. The more you learn, the more fun it is… and the more you WANT to learn…


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